Watercolour sky...
The clouds in the blue sky today are so interesting looking that it makes me wish I was more artistic. There are what seems to be a millions shades of pale blue, grey and white in them. And the contrast between them and the bright blue sky is unbelievable. I unfortunately do not have my camera on me, but just close your eyes and try to picture it. They are incredible!
As was the day yesterday. I felt very refreshed after having climb to the top of the hill near "Old George" yesterday as the others were picking berries and fishing. As I stood near the top, I knelt down and picked a few blueberries to munch on, I looked around and soaked in the beauty. I felt as though I was on top of the world and I was far enough away from the others that I could scarcely even hear them. Just me and the environment. A few berries stained my knees from where I was kneeling and all I could think of was how lucky I am to be where I am, to have all of my needs taken care of, and even most of my wants fulfilled, all except one, having a special someone to share it all with. I know, I know, I am starting to sound like one pathetically desperate broken record... Reading Tam's story of meeting Pat was so touching... It's hard not to think about my own future.
In reality, I am surrounded by so many people who love and care about me. I am more blessed than many others feel they are. I recognize it, and cherish that connection I have with people, and as a result, I sometimes feel guilty for desiring "just one more" person- "THE" person. So many people feel alone, but I KNOW that I am not alone. So many people struggle in abusive relationships, but I do not have that burden. So why am I not content with this? Is it just trying to fit into a society that holds dating/marriage/partnership in such high esteem, or is it some deep down human spiritual need?? Is there one "soul mate" for each of us, and if we miss them on our path is that it? Or are than many suitable partners that we can find happiness with?
That's all the philosophizing for now... Let me know your thoughts on these questions, if you feel like it... I appreciate all the life experience and wisdom you are willing to share!
G.
posted by Gillian at
4:36:00 PM
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I think it's part of the human condition to desire to be "paired".
Our soul's longing--- for completion--- And I don't think there is just one-- one and only soul mate--- There are probably many people with whom we could be compatible-- for me, I found mine when I had pretty much given up looking in all the wrong places-- he came knocking at my door!!!
Since K&S shared her story of how Pat and her met, any chance you could share yours?? I love hearing these kinds of stories!!
Thanks for your insights by the way!
G.
I agree with Nannan. I don't believe there is just one and only soul mate. And they usually do come around when you are not looking!
I married my first husband at the ripe old age of 20 and I loved him madly. But that didn't work out, and for a long while I swore I would never marry again. But, then, out of the blue...I met a guy (in a bar- blush). At first I kept pushing him away, but he persisted and we've been together for 21 years now. Not all easy years, but we're very comfortable with each other and we love each other. And we growing old and grouchy together (hehehehehe). Not exactly the same as the fresh bloom of first love...but better.
And P.S. - you can be terribly lonely in a marriage too..(re: first marriage).
Thanks for the post TM... I guess I am a total hopeless romantic, but also majorly realistic... So, you advice is well received...
Thanks for sharing your stories and congrats on the 21 years... by todays standards where commitment is not taken very seriously, it is quite a testament to the strength of your relationship...
G.
It's neat to hear such similar wisdom from you ladies... but except in my last few blogs,(LOL!!) I tend to live my life without looking...
Do you think it is also possible that love can be missed because someone is too busy with their career and volunteer work??? As for the possibilities for love in Yarmouth, that is one thing I am not so sure about ljlc?? hehehe
G.
Love will find you, wherever you are!! Tammie was home on her computer-- I'll save the story of Frank and me for a post--- You hear so often of a woman getting pregnant just when she's given up, and adopts a child---- seems it catches up on you when you're not looking---- By the way, what do you guys do for substitutes-- or do you just not get sick??
substitutes... right now we are still looking for a permanent teacher for secondary math science... Sometimes weare lucky to have spouses of teachers who are willing to sub, but typically the kids are sent out since there is NO ONE at all who can replace.... It's sad for the kids, since they miss out on learning, but also when there is trouble finding new teachers they miss important curriculum and then sometimes lose any chance to get the credit, since when a teacher is hired there have to rush through so much the kids simply cannot keep up...
we are in a tricky situation right now because we don't really have any spouses available to sub... It's awful, and we are not the only school in our board, there are still 7 holes across the board... I feel bad for our kids, who deserve to get a fair education, but we just can't get the teachers!!
Interesting thoughts about single women and timing...
G.
PS glad you agreed to share your story! I can't wait!
Hey G, who is "for the birds"?
for the birds was a name that came up for no good reason once when connie tried to post... she said that she had no idea how it happened!?
weird eh!
Personally, I don't think it's possible that love can be missed. A person may be totally involved in their work and their volunteer work, and then one day, out of the blue, when you least expect it, and sometimes when you least want it...it comes.
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